Intermeddler In`ter*med”dler\, n. One who meddles with, or intrudes into, the affairs of others. –Swift. Webster’s Revised Unabridged Dictionary, © 1996, 1998 MICRA, Inc. Observing, listening, and repeating back what I hear.  One never knows where I’ll be, who I’ll be sitting next to, and what I’ll think about what you’re saying.